The Reasons Men Lose Interest In You

If you’re reading this article, then you’ve probably been a victim of a man who, after spending a few enjoyable dates with you, suddenly stops calling. You realize that he hasn’t asked you out for the longest time, and that when you do meet, he’s acting very strangely. Nothing you do seems to elicit the same fun reactions he used to give you when you were still dating.

Of course, being the woman that you are, you try to do things to get things back to normal, and if it doesn’t, spend days trying to figure out what went wrong in your relationship. Could there have been something you could’ve done to make him stay? Or was there something you did wrong that made him leave? If there was, just what in the world was it, so you could fix things and try to get him back again? When you’ve exhausted all your theories, you’ll probably settle into the idea that all men are simply jerks.

When you see this situation happening again in the future, whether to yourself or to one of your girlfriends, just remember the age-old saying: “If you’re not growing, then you’re dying.”

In other words, the main reason why men leave women all of a sudden is because these men don’t “feel it” in their relationship anymore. Men, contrary to popular belief, don’t fall head over heels for their women and strive to make their girlfriends and wives the centers of their worlds. Instead, they see their women as a part of their routine lives. And when there’s something you do that he doesn’t like, and you keep doing it over and over, it’ll tell him to look for something else to occupy the space in his life that you used to fill.

So unless you change, he’s bound to leave sooner or later.

So how do you know what to change? It’s simple – you need to figure out what isn’t working for the relationship. If becoming overly emotional or kissing up to him doesn’t work, it doesn’t mean that you have to redouble your efforts. It means you have to stop doing what isn’t working. Often, a heart-to-heart talk will tell you what he’s looking for, after which you can decide whether you can give him what he’s looking for or not.

In the meantime, you can protect yourself from ever encountering this problem by keeping these three things in mind.

Tip #1: Good men don’t like dependent women. Remember this – the good men have probably met lots of women in their lives, and can easily tell between dependent and independent women. Dependent women tend to be clingy and rush into relationships – a type he most likely doesn’t want to spend his life with.

Tip #2: Don’t be predictable. If he knows the next thing you’re going to say or do, then he’ll know what’ll happen on your next date. That means he won’t be thinking of you much when you’re apart. When you’re lively and unpredictable, he’ll spend quite a bit of his time thinking about you and trying to figure you out.

Tip #3: Most of all, don’t be boring. Men love humor – it’s evident how they look for a good time every chance they get. Boring women talk about their jobs – interesting women tell you about their impossible co-workers. Boring women talk about the men in their lives – interesting women talk about pick-up lines. Isn’t this the best way to keep him coming back for more of you?

The bottom line is to keep your man interested, as this keeps the attraction between you healthy. If you try to give him a great experience every time you meet, he won’t need to look elsewhere for fun.

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Aaron Adams specializes in relationship matters for women. Visit www.datingquestionsforwomen.com to find out how to create intense attraction in a man.

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